Pregnancy is not just a physical journey for the mother — it’s an emotional transformation for the couple. As a partner, how you show love and support can make all the difference. But have you ever wondered what your natural style of expressing love ( love language ) is during this phase?
This quiz is designed to help you discover your predominant love language — the unique way you express care, concern, and connection with your pregnant partner.
What Are the 5 Love Languages?
Psychologist Dr. Gary Chapman proposed that everyone gives and receives love in different ways. These five “languages” help explain how we naturally connect with those we care about:
- Words of Affirmation – Expressing love through spoken or written appreciation, encouragement, or compliments.
- Quality Time – Giving someone your undivided attention and spending meaningful moments together.
- Acts of Service – Doing things for your partner to ease their burden, like helping with tasks or responsibilities.
- Physical Touch – Expressing love through hugs, holding hands, or gentle contact.
- Receiving (or Giving) Gifts – Thoughtful tokens or surprises that show “I remembered you.”
How to Take the Quiz
You might feel like all the options fit you — and that’s completely normal. Most people express love in more than one way. But this quiz will help you identify the style that comes most naturally to you, especially when your partner is expecting.
Choose the option that feels most like “you” — not the one you wish you were or what society expects. Be honest, be instinctive.
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Results
The Appreciator (Words of Affirmation)
“Your strength lies in your words — calm, kind, and reassuring.”
When your partner is feeling anxious or tired, you know exactly what to say. You comfort her with heartfelt compliments, support her during mood swings, and remind her she’s not alone in this journey. Your words act like an emotional massage — lifting her up, even when her hormones are going wild.
💭 Typical You: “You’re so strong. I’m proud of you. We’re in this together.”
🔧 Room to Grow:
Words are powerful, but actions back them up. Try pairing your appreciation with a small gesture — a glass of water, holding her hand, or stepping into her shoes for a day.
Mini Challenge: Next time you tell her she’s amazing, also do one task she’s struggling with — no questions asked.
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The Time Giver (Quality Time)
“Your love is undivided presence.”
You believe being there is more important than doing something. Whether it’s joining her for a scan or simply sitting in silence during a tough day, your presence is your greatest gift. You value connection, eye contact, shared meals, and those long chai breaks more than flashy gestures.
💭 Typical You: “Want to go for a quiet walk?”
🔧 Room to Grow:
Sometimes she may need more than company — a few spoken words of love, a thoughtful act, or help with chores can enhance your presence.
Mini Challenge: Use your time to ask her about her needs. Then act on one thing without waiting to be told.
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The Silent Server (Acts of Service)
“You speak the language of care through your actions.”
You may not always express emotions openly, but your hands are always working — chopping vegetables, arranging doctor appointments, managing the budget. You take responsibility seriously and believe love is shown, not said.
💭 Typical You: “Don’t worry, I’ve already packed the hospital bag.”
🔧 Room to Grow:
While doing is your strength, don’t forget to share your inner thoughts too. She wants to hear what she means to you, not just see it through tasks.
Mini Challenge: The next time you serve her something, also say something warm. Combine the act with a verbal hug.
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The Touch Communicator (Physical Touch)
“You offer calm through closeness.”
A hand on her back during labor class, a hug after a tough scan, or simply sleeping close — your instinct is to offer safety through physical warmth. You might not be big on emotional chatter, but your partner always feels safe in your arms.
💭 Typical You: “Come here. Just lie down next to me.”
🔧 Room to Grow:
Touch is deeply intimate, but don’t let it become your only tool. Learn to ask, listen, and offer verbal comfort too — especially when your partner needs empathy, not just embrace.
Mini Challenge: Before you hug her, say something she needs to hear. Let words and touch be a team.
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The Surprise Spreader (Receiving/Giving Gifts)
“You keep the sparkle alive with thoughtful surprises.”
You love showing your love with tokens — pregnancy-safe snacks, a cute onesie for the baby, or a new kurta when she least expects it. You believe gifts are not materialism, but a way of saying “I thought of you today.”
💭 Typical You: “I got something for you. Close your eyes.”
🔧 Room to Grow:
Gifts are beautiful, but they shine brightest when they meet her emotional needs. Make sure your surprises are about her, not just about the item.
Mini Challenge: Ask her how she’s feeling this week — and choose a gift that supports that emotion, not just what’s trending online.
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#1. After a small fight, how do you make up?
#2. It’s your anniversary! What are you most likely to do?
#3. How do you usually participate in her antenatal care?
#4. She’s out of town. What do you do to stay connected?
#5. Your wife is in her third trimester and feeling low. How do you support her emotionally?
#6. How do you usually react when your partner is upset or crying?
#7. She’s having morning sickness. What’s your instinctive reaction?
#8. When she’s anxious about the delivery, how do you comfort her?
#9. It’s a lazy Sunday, and she’s tired from pregnancy fatigue. What do you suggest?
#10. How do you usually make your partner feel loved after a long day?
Your journey as a supportive partner, and soon-to-be dad, is just beginning — and we’ve got your back.
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